January 20th, 2014 — Art and Culture
This year marks the 40th anniversary of Diane Von Furstenberg’s iconic wrap dress. Housed in the historic Wilshire May Company Building, this retrospective of vintage and contemporary DVF wraps is chronicled by a timeline, telling the journey of the legendary dress—from the first sample to a world-renowned symbol of power and freedom for entire generations of women.
November 6th, 2012 — Art and Culture, Etiquette, Playing House, Tips
Every WIFE should be well versed in auction etiquette whether your preferred auction house be Sotheby’s, Phillips de Pury or Christie’s. If you’re an avid collector chances are you are likely in the know with the key points below. However if you are new to world of auction houses, it can be a bit overwhelming. Here is guide to make your buying and bidding experience simple and seamless. – Taryn Cox for THE WIFE
1. CATAOLGUES: Choose the auction house of your liking and request a catalouge. If you’re a new collector you can subscribe to catalogues, but they will most likely cost you (Sotheby’s are $106.00 each, Christie’s $50.00 and Phillips de Pury $35.00). However if you are a regular collector they send them to you free of charge. If you’re looking to avoid paying for catalogues try browsing their e-cataolgues online. Also register your email for updates on upcoming sales in the specific catagory of your choosing.
2. AUCTION TERMS: Whether you are looking to buy or sell fine art, jewelry, antiques or other valuable properties, both buyers and sellers should know the glossary of terms and steps to ensure ownership of a desired object or a successful sale. Here is the Glossary of Terms.
August 5th, 2011 — Advice, Domestic Goddess, Etiquette, Tips
A lady always shows respect and consideration for others while placing a premium on honesty and graciousness. A lady also knows how her individual choices may affect others and how easy it is to choose words and actions more wisely. If you missed out on cotillion as a child, I think it best to invest in an etiquette book. ‘Emily Post’s Book of Etiquette’ is great to look up and source any question you might have and a perfect addition to any Lady’s Library. In the meantime here are my top 10 tips for being a lady in modern day society. – Taryn Cox for THE WIFE.
1. Follow Through – Nobody likes a flaky person. Regardless of how busy your life has become with commitments to your Husband and Children, you should never agree to take on more than you can handle i.e.… rsvp-ing to events, lunches with friends or other engagements. When receiving an invitation, contemplate if you’ll be exhausted from a busy day and politely decline. Many people re-arrange their schedules and look forward to plans and get upset with last minute cancellations. If a cancellation is necessary, be sincere in your apology and reschedule as soon as possible.
2. Phone Etiquette – Calls should only be placed between the hours of 9:00am – 10:00pm. Try to make a habit of returning calls within 24 hours of getting the message. When taking calls on your cell phone do consider other around you, keep conversations short and never discuss private matters in public. Your cell phone should remain in your purse and never be taken out during a meal. If need be excuse yourself from the table to check in with babysitters or any other emergencies. When in theatres or performances turn your phone to silent or off and avoid texting. Texting is extremely rude when in the presence of others.
3. Dressing Like a Lady – A lady always leaves something to the imagination, which is why one should choose to show a little leg or instead decide to accentuate your décolletage. When sitting down always cross your legs or ankles to avoid nearby peeping toms; it’s also important to practice getting in and out of cars without flashing the valet. (How to get out of a car without showing your knickers) Take the time to learn which dress codes are appropriate for certain occasions, for example if your invitation calls for “Cocktail Attire”, “Black Tie” or “White Tie,” would you know what is appropriate to wear? (Dress Code Guide)
4. It’s The Little Things – When a guest enters your home, do you offer them a glass of water or beverage of their choice? When arranging for a dinner party, do you remember if one of your dinner guests has a gluten allergy? When selecting a gift, is it something your friend mentioned they wanted? Just as a gentlemen would offer his coat if you were showing signs of being cold is how you should pay attention to small details. It’s a great way to show the people around you how much you care and are listening. Go the distance to make the people in your life feel incredibly special.
5. Always The Gracious Guest – Whether you have been invited over to a someone’s home for a dinner party, movie screening or cocktails, Never show up without a hostess gift. The gesture can be as small as a bottle of wine or dessert to as grand as having a flower arrangement delivered.
February 10th, 2010 — Just ask THE WIFE
Ila Asked:
I hope you are well, Taryn.
I need your advice. I have a wedding to attend in mid March in Scottsdale, Arizona, time: 6pm. And my problem is that I have no idea what to wear. First because it is March and second the time. Also, my friend from Monaco (her family Catholic/conservative) is getting married to a doctor in Arizona.
Please help! 
Ila
THE WIFE Answered:
The first and fore most rule of wedding dress etiquette is never wear any shade of white to a wedding. This color is exclusively reserved for the bride and her wedding party.
Knowing what to wear can be a bit confusing, So it’s always best to take hints from the invitation:
If the invitation reads “White Tie” This is the most formal for all wedding dress codes. It’s at the tip top of glitz and glamour, it’s best you find your most elegant Floor length ball gown, because this is the perfect occasion to wear it. Be sure to accessorize with beautiful jewels and a glamorous up do or other enchanting hairstyle. Men should be in a formal tuxedo with a cumberbund vest, white tie and shiny shoes.
If the invitation reads “Black Tie” then formal attire is required and usually means the wedding is an evening affair. Women do not necessarily have to be in floor length gowns, but should wearing a chic and classy cocktail dress or elegant separates with a small evening bag. Men should be in dapper tuxedos with a black bow tie and fancy shoes.
If the invitation says “Formal or Black Tie Optional.” This suggests something less formal than black tie. Women should be in a cocktail dresses or a suit. Men have the choice to wear a tuxedo or a formal suit and tie.
If the invitation says “Casual” This does not mean show up in jeans, shorts or a tank top. I would encourage to wear a nice button down or polo. Women are fine in a dress, skirt or sophisticated pants with a blouse.
If the invitation does not state what the appropriate attire is, then try to take hint from the season and hour of the wedding. A Spring/Summer wedding is perfect for pastel dresses with dressy sandals and for men lighter colored suits. While a Winter wedding calls for warmer clothes, the wedding site should provide a coat check for heavy coats.
Day weddings are more casual, stay away from long gowns, sequins and heavy beading. Opt instead for knee length dresse or skirts. Feel free to wear a ladies hat or bring sunglasses. If the wedding is on a beach, men are allowed to wear linen shirts and pants or khaki pants with leather sandals. Women are fine in sundresses with flats or sandals, be sure to bring a light cardigan or sweater wrap in case of chilly breezes.
Evening weddings and receptions generally call for cocktail or formal attire, knee length or longer gowns are acceptable as well as darker colors like black. Men should be in business attire.
Always Remember to respect the wishes of the bride and groom, as well as their religious rules. Some Church’s might require different protocol the others. And If you still are confused and don’t know, it is always best to ask someone in the bridal party. – THE WIFE
March 31st, 2015 — Babies, Easter, WIFE with Kids
Babies first Easter and when pastel colors rule the roost no matter what their gender. Click “continue reading” to shop whimsical spring outfits for your adorable little baby bunnies! Photographed Above: Sienna Floral Dress, $100.00 at StellaMcCartney.com; Annael Kern Petit Biscuit Soft Musical Toy, $53.00 at Shopminikin.com and Easter Eggs –THE WIFE™
"THE WIFE" is for the timeless wife or elegant wife to be. Whether THE WIFE favors a career working in the corporate world or has dedicated her time and efforts as a housewife, She always maintains a happy and healthy family. THE WIFE is an astounding woman and amazing mother, who proudly makes time for her husband and children. THE WIFE loves to cook, has a passion for party planning, a fondness for etiquette, adores decorating and keeping a beautiful home and of course dressing the part. THE WIFE cares about being "green" and takes the time to make her home environmentally friendly. Finally THE WIFE dedicates her spare time to charitable causes and giving back to her community.
- Miss Taryn Cox
